- Susan Stewart
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Creating Space at the Table & Building Women Up
There are leaders who manage people, and then there are leaders who transform people.
Brandy Kirby has spent more than three decades doing exactly that. Throughout her 36-year career in title and escrow, she has become known not only for her expertise, but for her unwavering belief that success grows when women support women.
Based in Phoenix, Arizona, Brandy serves as Executive Vice President of Escrow Administration at Clear Title Agency, where she combines operational leadership with something far more meaningful: helping others discover their own strength, confidence, and voice.
"There is room at the table for everyone. Celebrate each other."
That philosophy isn't just something Brandy says. It is how she leads every day.
From Receptionist to Executive Leadership
Like many title professionals, Brandy's journey began unexpectedly. After moving to Arizona in 1990, her very first job was working as a receptionist at John Hall and Associates. Three months later, she was recruited by Fidelity, launching what would become a remarkable career spanning more than three decades. "The rest is history."
What started as an entry-level opportunity evolved into a lifelong passion for helping people navigate one of the most important moments of their lives.
As an Escrow Officer, Brandy loved helping first-time homebuyers achieve their dreams and solving complex challenges that seemed impossible to overcome. Today, while her role has expanded into executive leadership, that passion remains. The difference is that now, her focus has expanded beyond clients to include the women she leads and mentors every day.
Making Dreams Come True & Building Future Leaders
Brandy believes escrow is about much more than documents and deadlines; It is about helping people achieve life-changing milestones. It is about finding solutions when obstacles arise. It is about creating calm during stressful moments.
But over the years, her greatest passion has become empowering the women around her.
She works tirelessly to help women recognize their strengths, develop confidence in their abilities, and understand that success is not a limited resource.

"Empowering women to stand up and be counted is one of the most rewarding parts of my role."
Her mission is simple: remove the noise that comes from insecurity and replace it with support, collaboration, and confidence.
The Mentor Who Changed Everything.
One of the most surprising parts of Brandy's story is that her greatest mentor wasn't a woman at all. In fact, her first several years in escrow were spent working under two leaders whose environments were often toxic and discouraging. It wasn't until Jim Clifford entered her life that everything changed.
Jim taught Brandy a lesson that would forever shape her leadership philosophy.
"We all have our own talents. When we work together and call on each other's strengths, we create something greater than any one person could achieve alone."
No competition.
No ego.
No holding others back.
Just support, respect, and teamwork.
Thirty-five years later, Jim remains her mentor, trusted advisor, best friend, and one of the most important influences in her life.
Breaking the Cycle
Brandy believes one of the biggest obstacles women encounter can sometimes be other women. Instead of allowing that reality to discourage her, she has dedicated much of her career to changing it.
Through mentorship, coaching, and leading by example, Brandy helps women move beyond comparison and competition so they can truly celebrate one another's successes.
"The biggest lesson I learned was how to help women let go of their egos and genuinely support one another."
Advice for the Next Generation
Brandy's advice for women entering title today is both simple and profound.
"Don't lose yourself."

She encourages women to stay open to growth, embrace failure as part of the process, and allow themselves to evolve into the person they are meant to become.
Success isn't about becoming someone else.
It's about becoming more fully yourself.
Her Why: The Women Beside Her
Brandy's motivation comes from the incredible women she works alongside every day.
She describes them as the most supportive group of women she has ever known.
Together they celebrate victories, weather storms, and remind one another that no challenge has to be faced alone. "We help each other through every storm."
That sense of community continues to fuel her passion and purpose.
A Lifelong Student of Leadership
Brandy is an avid learner who believes leadership requires constant growth.
Books like Winning by Jack Welch, Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg, Tribal Leadership, and The Four Agreements have helped shape her leadership philosophy. In fact, she has read The Four Agreements seven times!
She also draws inspiration from thought leaders such as Simon Sinek, Mel Robbins, and Sebastian Enges, whose teachings reinforce the importance of personal growth, self-awareness, and intentional leadership.
Leading with Kindness & Emotional Intelligence
One of Brandy's greatest strengths is her ability to remain calm when others are not.
Her approach to conflict is refreshingly straightforward:
"Be kind. Stick to the facts. Don't take it personally."
Rather than matching the energy of hostile people, she focuses on solutions and clarity.
This mindset stems from one of the most valuable skills she has mastered throughout her career: emotional intelligence.
The ability to separate emotion from the problem allows her to lead with perspective, help others navigate challenges, and make thoughtful decisions even under pressure.


Grit, Family & a Military Mindset
Brandy credits much of her resilience to her upbringing as a military child. Frequent moves taught her how to adapt quickly, embrace change, and thrive in unfamiliar situations.
She often says her father gave her grit, while her mother gave her endurance, independence, charm, wit, and winning personality.
And judging by anyone who knows Brandy, she'd tell you her mother absolutely succeeded.
"My father gave me grit. My mother gave me endurance and independent thinking."
Those lessons continue to influence how she approaches leadership and life.
The Village That Keeps Her Grounded
Family has always been at the center of Brandy's life. She followed her sister to Arizona because she couldn't imagine living far away from her. Leaving her father behind was one of the hardest decisions she ever made.
Today, her village includes family, lifelong friends, colleagues, and the people she has worked alongside for decades. Many of those relationships began in the workplace and evolved into friendships that have stood the test of time.
That sense of connection and belonging is something she treasures deeply.
"My village is made up of family and best friends who became family."
Life Beyond the Closing Table
Outside of work, Brandy's greatest joy is her three-year-old granddaughter. Time with her daughter and granddaughter fills her cup and reminds her what matters most.
She is also passionate about travel, music, and yoga, which help her stay centered and connected to herself.

Her first concert was Rick Springfield at the Air Force Academy in the 1980s, a memory she still smiles about today.
Nothing That Can't Be Fixed
If there is one phrase that perfectly captures Brandy's approach to leadership and life, it is this: "There's nothing that can't be fixed."
That mindset has carried her through challenges, setbacks, difficult conversations, and major transitions. It reflects her optimism, resilience, and unwavering belief that solutions always exist when people work together.
Building a Legacy of Confidence & Collaboration
For Brandy, legacy is not measured by position or recognition, but by people. She hopes to leave behind an environment where individuals felt safe to learn, confident to lead, and empowered to become the best versions of themselves.
An environment where confidence replaced fear.
Where competence was nurtured.
Where teamwork mattered more than ego.
One accomplishment she is particularly proud of is creating a safe place for women to land during difficult seasons while helping them achieve meaningful goals together.
"No egos. All teamwork." That simple phrase may be the perfect summary of her leadership legacy.

A Final Word to the Women of Her.Collective
Brandy leaves the women of Her.Collective with a message that perfectly reflects her heart:
"Trust your judgment. Speak up in meetings. Seek mentorship and lift others as you rise."
Your perspective matters.
Your voice matters.
And this industry needs your leadership today more than ever.
We are honored to celebrate Brandy Kirby as this week's Her.Collective Spotlight. A leader, mentor, and champion for women whose impact continues to ripple across our industry one relationship at a time.
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